JRE #1360 – Nikki Glaser

Animal Welfare and Rescue

Glaser’s love for dogs shines through as she shares her experiences with rescue animals, highlighting the joy and challenges of taking in a dog with a troubled past.

• She describes the rewarding experience of seeing a previously abused dog finally accept love.
• Glaser emphasizes the emotional connection with rescue dogs, expressing curiosity about their past trauma.
• She discusses the emotional impact of seeing a dog finally overcome its fear and open up to affection.
• The conversation touches upon the issue of animal shelters making up stories about rescue dogs to encourage adoption.

Veganism and Animal Ethics

Glaser’s veganism is explored, revealing her passion for animal rights and her personal journey with this lifestyle choice.

• She delves into the ethical dilemmas surrounding factory farming and the importance of treating animals with respect.
• Glaser reveals her personal triggers for veganism, linking it to periods of emotional intensity and empathy.
• The conversation discusses the practical challenges and health implications of veganism, including protein intake, omega fatty acids, and vitamin B12.
• Glaser emphasizes her commitment to ethical treatment of animals, highlighting the issue of factory farming as her primary concern.

The Benefits of Exercise and Physical Activity

Rogan and Glaser discuss the impact of exercise on mental and emotional well-being, emphasizing its role in managing anger and anxiety.

• They explore the concept of “anger demons” and how physical activity can help release pent-up energy and alleviate negative emotions.
• Glaser shares her personal experience of how working out intensely during a period of sobriety led to a reduction in anxiety and a calmer mental state.
• The conversation touches upon the idea of our biological reward systems, suggesting that physical activity is essential for maintaining mental and emotional balance.
• They advocate for incorporating physical activity into daily life, emphasizing its role in overall health and well-being.

Meditation and Mindfulness

Glaser discusses her experience with meditation and how it has helped her manage anxiety and depression, highlighting its importance in gaining control over thoughts.

• She describes the transformative power of recognizing that thoughts are not synonymous with self and that we have the ability to choose which thoughts to entertain.
• Glaser emphasizes the importance of gaining control over thoughts as a key strategy for managing negative emotions and mental health challenges.
• The conversation suggests that meditation can be a valuable tool for managing anger and promoting overall well-being.
• Glaser shares her personal journey with meditation, emphasizing its effectiveness in reducing anxiety and depression.

Alcohol and Sobriety

Glaser’s journey with alcohol and her decision to quit are discussed, highlighting the power of personal transformation and the effectiveness of a specific book in overcoming addiction.

• She shares her decision to quit drinking after a particularly debilitating hangover, recognizing that she was prioritizing the perceived benefits of being sick over her own well-being.
• Glaser credits the book “The Easy Way to Stop Drinking” by Alan Carr for her successful sobriety, emphasizing its effectiveness in dismantling justifications for drinking.
• She discusses the psychological effects of believing that quitting is difficult and how Carr’s book challenges this notion, demonstrating that it is often the perceived difficulty that makes quitting hard.
• Glaser highlights the transformative impact of sobriety on her life, particularly her career trajectory and overall well-being.

The Impact of Words and Cancel Culture

Glaser and Rogan engage in a nuanced discussion about the role of words in society and the pitfalls of cancel culture, arguing for context and intent.

• They challenge the idea of banning or outlawing certain words, arguing that words are merely tools to convey intent and should not be judged solely based on their sound.
• Glaser and Rogan criticize the practice of demonetizing YouTube videos based on the use of certain words, emphasizing the importance of considering context.
• They express concern about the increasing sensitivity surrounding language and the potential for overreaction to words without understanding their intended meaning.
• The conversation explores the dangers of creating a culture where people are afraid to express themselves freely due to fear of being canceled.

The Nature of Celebrity and Fame

Glaser and Rogan discuss the impact of fame on one’s life, exploring the unique challenges of navigating celebrity status, dealing with unwanted attention, and the shift in social dynamics.

• Glaser shares her experience of how people’s behavior towards her changed after she gained notoriety, highlighting the tendency for people to be nicer to those who are famous.
• She expresses discomfort with the idea of being treated differently due to her fame and emphasizes the importance of remembering that celebrities are still human beings.
• The conversation delves into the strange and sometimes intrusive nature of fans interacting with celebrities, highlighting the importance of setting boundaries and respecting personal space.
• Glaser discusses the impact of fans feeling like they know her personally through her podcast and how this can lead to inappropriate behavior, such as unwanted advances or attempts to touch her in public.

Sexuality and Female Empowerment

Glaser candidly discusses her evolving perspective on sexuality, exploring her desire to experience intimacy with women and her journey of self-discovery.

• She openly shares her attraction to women and her desire to engage in intimate experiences with them, emphasizing her desire to broaden her understanding of sexuality.
• Glaser discusses her perspective on female empowerment and the importance of embracing one’s own sexuality.
• She touches upon the social norms surrounding female sexuality and the pressure on women to conform to certain expectations.
• The conversation explores the complexities of navigating relationships as a woman in the public eye, particularly the challenges of finding a partner who can handle her intensity and success.

Intimacy, Relationships, and Self-Esteem

Glaser delves into her personal struggles with intimacy and self-esteem, highlighting the challenges of finding the right partner and navigating emotional vulnerability.

• She shares her experience of feeling insecure about her appearance and the impact this has on her dating life.
• Glaser discusses her fear of intimacy and how it leads her to avoid commitment and emotional vulnerability.
• She explores the idea that some people are simply incompatible and that finding the right partner is about finding someone who fits like a puzzle piece.
• Glaser shares her perspective on the importance of self-acceptance and the need to work on self-esteem in order to form healthy relationships.

The Bill Cosby Case and Sexual Assault

Glaser and Rogan discuss the Bill Cosby case, exploring the complexities of sexual assault, the power dynamics involved, and the potential for systemic abuse within Hollywood.

• They discuss the disturbing allegations against Cosby and express shock and disgust at his actions.
• Glaser and Rogan speculate about Cosby’s motivations and the potential role of celebrity status in his actions.
• The conversation touches upon the prevalence of sexual assault and the importance of holding perpetrators accountable.
• Glaser and Rogan discuss the cultural shift around sexual assault and the increasing awareness of the issue in recent years.

The Role of Sleep in Mental and Physical Health

Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of sleep and its impact on mental and physical health, highlighting its role in managing emotions and decision-making.

• They emphasize the crucial role of sleep in maintaining overall well-being, particularly in managing emotions and making sound decisions.
• Glaser shares her experience with sleep deprivation and how it contributed to a meltdown, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing sleep.
• The conversation touches upon the potential for sleep deprivation to lead to negative consequences, such as impaired judgment, impulsivity, and emotional instability.
• They acknowledge the challenges of getting enough sleep in the demanding world of entertainment and the importance of finding ways to prioritize rest.

Cancel Culture and Comedy

Glaser and Rogan discuss the impact of cancel culture on comedy, exploring the challenges of pushing boundaries and the delicate balance between humor and offense.

• They discuss the case of Louis CK and the controversy surrounding his jokes about Parkland survivors, highlighting the difficulty of navigating sensitive topics in comedy.
• Glaser and Rogan emphasize the importance of context and the fact that many jokes are works in progress, often evolving over time.
• They express concern about the tendency to judge comedians based on single jokes rather than considering their overall body of work and their intentions.
• The conversation touches upon the challenges of being a comedian in a culture that is increasingly sensitive to offense and the need for a balance between freedom of expression and respect for others.

The Importance of Finding Your Tribe

Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of finding a supportive community and the challenges of navigating relationships in a competitive field.

• They emphasize the value of finding a community of like-minded individuals, particularly in the world of comedy, where support and understanding are essential.
• Glaser and Rogan acknowledge the difficulty of finding a partner who can handle the unique demands of being a comedian and the potential for jealousy or insecurity in relationships.
• The conversation touches upon the importance of finding partners who are supportive and understanding of one’s career aspirations and passions.
• Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of finding a balance between personal and professional life and the need for a strong support system to navigate the challenges of both.

The Impact of Drugs and Psychedelics on Creativity and Perception

Glaser and Rogan discuss their experiences with various drugs and psychedelics, exploring their effects on creativity, perception, and personal growth.

• Glaser shares her experience with microdosing mushrooms and its positive impact on her mood and overall well-being.
• She discusses the potential for psychedelics to unlock creativity and enhance one’s perspective.
• Glaser and Rogan touch upon the concept of ego death and the potential for psychedelics to facilitate personal growth and self-exploration.
• The conversation delves into the risks and potential dangers of psychedelic use, emphasizing the importance of responsible use and understanding the potential consequences.

The Power of Obsession and the Importance of Finding Balance

Glaser and Rogan discuss the nature of obsession and its impact on personal and professional life, highlighting the importance of finding balance and maintaining a healthy perspective.

• They discuss the tendency for people to become obsessed with certain things, whether it’s fitness, work, or even drugs.
• Glaser and Rogan explore the potential for obsession to consume one’s life and lead to negative consequences, particularly when it comes to neglecting other important aspects of life.
• The conversation touches upon the importance of finding a balance between pursuing passions and maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
• They emphasize the need for self-awareness and the ability to recognize when obsession is becoming detrimental to one’s well-being.

The Importance of Supporting and Encouraging Emerging Artists

Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of supporting and encouraging emerging artists, particularly in the world of comedy.

• They share their experiences with watching and supporting up-and-coming comedians and the importance of recognizing talent in its early stages.
• Glaser and Rogan emphasize the role of mentors and established artists in helping to foster the development of new talent.
• The conversation touches upon the value of attending live comedy shows and supporting local talent, emphasizing the importance of creating a supportive community.
• They highlight the importance of recognizing the value of live comedy and the unique energy and connection that comes from experiencing it in person.

The Importance of Challenging Yourself and Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone

Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of challenging oneself and stepping outside one’s comfort zone, particularly when it comes to learning new skills and pursuing personal growth.

• They share their experiences with pursuing new hobbies and challenges, highlighting the transformative power of learning and growing.
• Glaser and Rogan emphasize the importance of engaging in activities that push one’s limits and expand one’s horizons.
• The conversation touches upon the concept of “bandwidth” and how challenging oneself can free up mental space for other pursuits.
• They advocate for embracing new experiences and venturing into uncharted territory as a way to enhance one’s life and personal growth.

The Role of Humor in Coping with Life’s Challenges

Glaser and Rogan discuss the importance of humor in coping with life’s challenges, highlighting its role in navigating difficult situations and maintaining a positive outlook.

• They share their personal experiences with using humor as a coping mechanism, particularly in dealing with stressful situations or difficult emotions.
• Glaser and Rogan emphasize the power of laughter to alleviate stress, lighten the mood, and promote resilience.
• The conversation touches upon the importance of finding humor in everyday life and the role it can play in fostering a sense of joy and perspective.
• They acknowledge the importance of humor as a tool for navigating difficult conversations and finding common ground with others.

Memorable Quotes

• “He’s so bad. He is weird. Right? It’s instantly. Like, he looked I told you when he came in, you I didn’t hadn’t even seen you yet, and he just saw me. And it’s like, we met our eyes met across the room and he just, like, bounded towards me. It felt so good.”
• “I’ve actually said if I could be reincarnated, it would be a rich person’s golden retriever. I’ve said that.”
• “It’s not courage. What you’re doing is you’re making yourself more stupid. You’re actually making yourself more I don’t know if the word is correct, but more you’re retarding yourself.”
• “The real problem is people have intent. Their intent is the same no matter what noise comes out of their mouth. Words are just conveying intent.”
• “If you really love someone and you really love being around them, what do you care if you’re vulnerable? Exactly. If you do care about that, you’re some kind of a pussy that you’re — Right. — deserved a relationship anyway.”